Anonymous #2 16w

But it’s her kids she can do whatever she wants with her kids that the point! It’s her kids, like if you want them then that’s a different story

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Anonymous #2 16w

She doesn’t deserve hate because it’s her life and her kids that’s why I never understood why people hated other people because of the way they live

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Anonymous OP 16w

🤨🤨🤨

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Anonymous OP 16w

Raising kids in an unsanitary house is cruel, the kids deserve better than that. People deserve hate for doing that to kids

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Anonymous #2 16w

But again they are her kids, why comment on other peoples kids, she made her bed but I don’t see you going out there to help her live a somewhat decent life? I don’t see you going over there to save those kids

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Anonymous #2 16w

That’s what I’m saying what people do to their kids is what they will do, like that’s their kids like yeah should she make them live in a more decent house yes

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Anonymous #2 16w

But my argument is it’s not our kids like it’s her decision and her kids that’s what I’m saying like why do people need to put their business in other peoples lives like there is this lady who is homeless with her kid

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Anonymous OP 16w

And? So what if they are her kids, that does not give her any kind of right to mistreat or endanger them

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Anonymous #2 16w

And she still raises her kid you know what I mean like idk how to explain it but I see it has other people kids, because foster care is no better and CPS sucks

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Anonymous #2 16w

Sure but at the end of the day it’s still her kids! That’s what I’m saying like nobody can tell you how to raise your kids is what I’m saying if she wants to give her kids cereal everyday then that’s what she does because it’s her kid

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Anonymous #2 16w

Like for people to hate they lack the help part

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Anonymous #2 16w

If people care about other peoples kids then why not help them? It’s because those kids aren’t their kids

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Anonymous OP 16w

Choosing to raise children in an environment where there is rotting food and feces on the floor is objectively bad. That makes them an objectively bad person.

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Anonymous #2 16w

Yes I understand that but like that’s my thing if people can hate on the women why not give them kids a better life like helping them but most people will sit there and watch because it’s not their kids

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Anonymous OP 16w

So if someone was abusing their kids, are you saying you’d be fine with that because at the end of the day its their kids?

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Anonymous #2 16w

Like I can hate on someone for being like the food is heavily processed but not help at all because it’s not my kids like what’s my argument people can hate but not help

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Anonymous #2 16w

For some people yeah a lot of people have turned an eye because it’s not their kid, in my instance I would call someone yes but that’s my thing it’s helping like you can sit on a screen and hate but not send help to the women or chicken

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Anonymous OP 16w

Children

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Anonymous #2 16w

Maybe I’m wording it wrong but all I’m saying is people shouldn’t have a right to talk about someone else if they aren’t giving any sort of help to change that

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Anonymous OP 16w

So for those kids in that situation to really get help, there needs to be intervention from an outside source like a government agency. So do you think that raising awareness of what’s going on and the situation itself can help accomplish that goal

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Anonymous #2 16w

But see foster care and CPS are garbage like the system itself it more harmful than the parent sometimes

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Anonymous OP 16w

Thats a weak argument

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Anonymous #2 16w

It’s not have you been in the system?

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Anonymous #2 16w

You haven’t seen what I’ve seen what I went through

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Anonymous OP 16w

So then if you see kids getting abused or raised in unsafe environments, there’s no point in doing anything because the alternative possibly could be bad too

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Anonymous #2 16w

At the end of the day what I’m saying is it’s not your kid and 90% of the time taking a kid away from a parent to potentially give them a better life isn’t an accurate response

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Anonymous #2 16w

That’s “better life” isn’t instant nor does it happen for everyone

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Anonymous #2 16w

From my experience sure I had a friend in the system who was abused and was in the same foster care and then got a new family and still got abused there

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Anonymous #2 16w

She still doesn’t have a family or anyone to support her so sending people the system isn’t just a quick and easy answer

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Anonymous OP 16w

If you were in a dog park and see someone kicking a puppy, no use doing anything about it because some shelters are bad too

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Anonymous #2 16w

That’s a different situation plus there protocols in place for animals but you can take a dog from someone but not a child

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Anonymous #2 16w

The point is a child

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Anonymous #2 16w

It’s not your kid, if you are willing to help the kid then sure by all means but my argument was like I said above if people can be hateful they can help

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Anonymous OP 16w

Pretty accurate comparison, your whole thing is that kid should just stay in abuse or stay in unsafe environments because the alternative *could* also be bad

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Anonymous #2 16w

You never been in the system or see anything so in my instance yes yes I do

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Anonymous #2 16w

You know how many homes I’ve went to just to be abused again and again

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Anonymous OP 16w

Help how? You don’t agree with notifying authorities, so you can’t call out the parent for mistreating kids unless you are willing to take the kid into your own home?

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Anonymous #2 16w

Once your 18 it’s even worse

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Anonymous #2 16w

Hey you may see it differently but to me I see it differently

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Anonymous #2 16w

It is what it is I guess I can’t make you see what I see so I guess we agree to disagree

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