Tbh I dated a guy who was a long time stoner and lowk he didn’t have any emotional intelligence whatsoever and ended up ruining our relationship bc since he was in high school he just smoked his feelings away and never knew how to deal with them so when it came to my emotions… he “couldn’t handle it”. Well maybe if you could handle yours at all or work on it we wouldn’t be in this situation 🤷🏻♀️