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I have to take a tbreak because of a potential job and I’ve asked my bf to not get high around me so I don’t get urges. He’s been doing good about not getting high around me but he’ll show up high and when I ask if he is he’ll lie and say he isn’t
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Anonymous 3d

Depends if he’s lying to actually lie and deceive you or in a sweet way saying he hasn’t smoked knowing it’s obvious he has just to be sweet about not bringing up weed while ur on a t break

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Anonymous 3d

Expecting him to completely change for you overnight is a bit far. I completely understand that it’s a simple ask, and he did stop *getting* high around you; but did you ask him to stop entirely? Do you know why he gets high compared to you? Etc etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

The lying is unacceptable tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I did ask him if he’d be willing to wait to get high until after we hangout but I understand how hard it is for him. He’s been smoking for almost a decade so I understand that he can’t just stop. I feel bad that I’m able to stop and go on breaks and stuff but he can’t stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yeahhh. Thats valid, and it’s gonna be hard for both of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

That’s my guess is he’s lying to help me. He’s usually really sweet so I doubt he’s doing it maliciously

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