
As a white boy i would let anyone hit my joint. Weed is one medium through which we can break down social barriers that keep us angry at each other and separated by stupidity. In using a drug we are all equal in the fact that we are chasing the same high, looking to fill that same void. Change can start anytime and we can all share the love that we humans were created to give.
Ofc and if you dont want to share with him thats your prerogative. And im sorry you feel alienated because from my point of privilege thats not something that has happened to me. But i would also like to ask if my existence as a white person at your school makes me implicit in the alienation that you feel?
But as a white person you simply dont understand that feeling of being an outsider in a country that’s supposed to be for all. And how are people expected to change when they exclude someone and still get what they want from that person? If anything OP did the most logical thing and gave these people at her school a taste of their own medicine
a big part of it is/was the approach and demeanor. if he came at me humbly it might have been a different story, a lot of white people around me go about expecting to be given anything they want from anybody. instead he came at me with the expectation of getting what he wanted, very loudly, and instead of respecting the no he continued to beg and ask. i could tell what kind of person he was and i didnt feel respected, so i told him “no youre good” and shared with the ppl i had already planned to