I know him screaming horrible, degrading things at me, and telling me how much he hates me can’t be love... But neither was the one who was soft, but let me cry to sleep beside him. The one who had no goals was kind, but not the one. Is it all this way?
Absolutely not. You’ve just unfortunately found 2 different sides of the same shitty coin. I’m sorry :(
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Anonymous#18w
Wait why is the second guy shitty? I feel like I’m that guy, the guy who nurtures but is nobody’s keeper in the end
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Anonymous#28w
Let her cry to sleep beside him? Sounds like that one didn’t even try to comfort her at all. Kinda a shitty way to be
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Anonymous#18w
Oh ig I just interpreted it differently but yea I can see what you mean. So listen to her cry and not do anything is def very shitty
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Anonymous#28w
For sure. I could not just stand by (lay by?) and listen to the woman I was supposedly in love with cry herself to sleep without knowing I had done my best to fix whatever was wrong. And even then I’d still be trying to comfort her until she did fall asleep