Most jobs aren’t like that. It sounds like you just have a bad one, which I’ve had before. Also it would be illegal for you to not be allowed to contact HR. You should at least have some communication from them from company wide emails or something from your onboarding. You could try email HR@companyname.com. Or most companies have an internal directory you look people up on. Try looking on LinkedIn for who works in HR
First she asked me about my hobbies and I told her I really liked reading. She then responds, “the only type of reading I like is sMUt” 🫠 and she goes around the office everytime a boy she thinks is cute comes in trying to get us to set them up like she’s a high school girl even though she’s 26. It’s just strange strange behavior and she’s also the one who acts like a high school bully