
OP did. He gives her all the power in the interaction. Makes her responsible for tearing him apart if he doesn’t like what she says. All I’m saying is hey maybe let’s view people as equals and not instantly make ourselves the victims of our own design and frame the other person as an insta-villain and your take from that was apparently “yeah! Take all her power!”
He should grow a pair like the rest of us. I’m not talking about the goddamn poem. If he really thinks that he should start taking a look at himself because playing victim doesn’t mean you play defense. I don’t but if I feel wronged I’m getting on the offensive bc there was no reason to get served this shit over what happened. I’m dealing with adult problems that require adult solutions and I’m tired of playing by the rules.