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I said it to my friend who has had 3 miscarriages and she was so thankful. It’s rlly not that hard for your bf to say it to you (especially if he won’t even put a ring on it). But anyways, to all who’ve miscarried in the past I give you this same msg 💗:
483 upvotes, 25 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Anything. "I said it to my friend who has had 3 miscarriages and she was so thankful. It’s rlly not that hard for your bf to say it to you (especially if he won’t even put a ring on it). But anyways, to all who’ve miscarried in the past I give you this same msg 💗:"
So I’m 9 weeks pregnant is it wrong for me to want my bf to say happy Mother’s Day? It’s not even like I wanna do anything today I just wanted to hear it
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Anonymous 1d

this ones tricky. my mom had many miscarriages and when a niece wished her happy mother’s day it broke her heart bc of how much she had tried to become a mother and each time, in her eyes, “failed” to do so.

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Anonymous 20h

If he didn’t that’s a red flag. If that’s his kid that you are carrying he should say happy Mother’s Day

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Anonymous 1d

If you have a kid or are pregnant sure, my gf never been pregnant so no reason to tell her happy mothers day lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yea ofc. I was addressing the person who made the post I responded to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Holy bean soup theory, clearly this was about women who have had children, are having children or experienced a pregnancy resulting in loss. Why would you tell someone who’s never been pregnant happy Mother’s Day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Well OP said “it's rlly not that hard for your bf to say it to you” like random women expect to be told happy mothers day bc theyre women lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I support eugenics because of people like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yes for about the original posters bf saying it because her and her bf are expecting not random couples who aren’t. Are you slow?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

People who can read? You're just mad cuz I got a gf and I'll actually pass my genes on? Why you so mad? 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I mean 9 weeks ain't a mother anyways lmao you're a mother when you have kids. If you're still allowed to abort the kid you're not a mom yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Really most people say 9 weeks isn't even a person so how could you be a mom? Or is it a human being now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

You are being an idiot no one has ever said it’s not a human being, it’s only possesses the capacity to be a human being. First off humans can only give birth to humans, so that logic goes out the window. We are not lions and tigers, dogs and wolves, horses and donkeys we cannot cross breed. And second you don’t get to determine when someone wants to be considered a mother, especially if they are looking forward to said pregnancy and child, okay great.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Who said anything about dogs? 😂 Everybody's a mom the day they get pregnant unless they don't want the kid and then it's just some cells we can throw in the bin. Frankly ya not a mom until you're holding a kid, like you said miscarriages can happen or they could choose abortion and then they just a woman with no kid

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Obviously #3 was right about the eugenics because you can not read. You made the dumb claim “or is it a human being now”. I’ve explained how a woman who is pregnant can only give birth to a human we cannot crossbreed. And if woman chooses an abortion it’s because she either has no intention to be a mother or is not capable of fulfilling the responsibilities. If a woman had a miscarriage it’s not really something she chose, she’d probably want to be recognized on what could’ve been.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

jts to pregnant women wth not all women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

you're the only person who's said anything about crossbreeding idk why you talking about that are you into fucking animals or something? that's disgusting. and if someone dosent want to be a mother and they can choose not to be while pregnant that means nobody who's pregnant is a mother. or they're all mothers and those moms are killing their kids bc they don't want them. which one is it? can't have your cake and eat it too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Maybe read the original post dumbass

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 21h

exactly she wants to be treated like a mom but she ain't a mom yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

She is a mom, fuck off

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

not yet she could still not have a kid she's 9 weeks in

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

So what? She’s a mother and if she sadly loses the baby then she’s not a mother anymore. I’m sick of clicking on my notifications and seeing your dumb ass comments 😭 leave it bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

if she can be not a mother anymore that means she's not a mother yet, once a mother always a mother

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

what are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

a mother is someone with a kid, this woman does not have a kid. when she has a kid, she'll be a mother.

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