AITA on Yik Yak | She invited him to a hangout that was supposed to me just me and her (again), left me alone at her place for over an hour to go pick up food for us with him?? Have not talked to her in almost a week now. Safe to say I’ll be exploring new friendships

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AITA 11w

She invited him to a hangout that was supposed to me just me and her (again), left me alone at her place for over an hour to go pick up food for us with him?? Have not talked to her in almost a week now. Safe to say I’ll be exploring new friendships

AITA 12w

Aita for secretly wishing my bsf and her bf would break up ok let me explain, it’s her first bf ever and we don’t talk as much as we used to and im so happy for her but also mourning how our friendship used to be

Anonymous 11w

When my (now ex lol) best friend starting pulling this same shit over and over again I cut her off and quit talking to her. Not only is it disrespectful, it just proves you were a placeholder until she found a man

Anonymous 11w

To clarify, I offered to drive for the food but no, I was visibly uncomfortable with the situation she still went through with it saying she’d be right back, I communicated with her afterwards and she got a bit defensive and has not reached out since then. I haven’t either because this is the second time this has happened I’ve made my boundaries clear I just need a heads up if he’s gonna be there during our hangout type shit

Anonymous 11w

you gotta look at it from her perspective too. this is her first relationship and they’re probably still in the honeymoon phase. a lot of couples like to spend time together during that period to get to know eachother more and that’s ok she’s introducing someone into her life. he’s going to be apart of her life in ways you may not want but it doesn’t make it not right.

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Anonymous

OP 11w

NTA just create distance, they’ll break up eventually and she’ll probs come crawling back to you

Anonymous

#2 11w

Started*

Anonymous

#3 11w

Read my comment. Doesn’t bother me that he’s there it’s that I’m not given a heads up and I’m told it’ll be “just us” then his company is sprung on me last minute in ways I’m not comfortable with like him coming with her in MY car when me and her went to get food. I wasn’t told till I saw him walking out with her and she just said oh yeah he’s coming too

Anonymous

OP 11w

i did read your comment and what i said still stands. downvoting simply cause it’s not in agreement with you is wild lol.

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Anonymous

#3 11w

Ikr so wild😝my point stands too, he can be a part of her life however he wants, but when I am visibly uncomfortable in the situations I am put in and I communicate it out loud too I would hope as a friend that that would get taken into consideration instead of it happening AGAIN. when I say out loud, I don’t like this and you keep pushing for it it’s no longer oh we’re just in our honeymoon phase haha so silly, it’s saying you care more about your new phase w him than my emotions in the moment

Anonymous

OP 11w

yea that’s literally what i’m telling you. obv she’s not gonna throw u away as a friend but she has someone new in her life that she’s going to prioritize more and it does suck but it’s also just apart of relationships and couples getting to know eachother. you also never said you told her any of these things just that you were “visibly uncomfortable” expecting her to focus on ur emotions over her own happiness. let’s not forget you were hoping they would breakup j cause it wasn’t in ur comfort.

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Anonymous

OP 11w

if i were ur friend i would genuinely feel saddened to know my friend held such negativity over me finding happiness with another person. your not picking the small things like including him? it’s her first bf ofc she’s gonna wanna include him. get over yourself.

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Anonymous

#3 11w

I did tell her I was uncomfortable I told her I didn’t like it I said that in the comment too😭you don’t understand where I’m coming from which is obvious and you don’t see the problem which is obvious so I’m gonna wish you a good day now thank you goodbye 🙏🏼

Anonymous

OP 11w

i AM seeing what u said which is why im acknowledging it. just because its not in agreement doesnt make it wrong. other perspectives exist and you need to be able to consider both ppls sides or your just selfishly ignorant.

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Anonymous

#3 11w

Saw her side, didn’t agree with her approach and felt disrespected. That is how I felt. Have a great day