Anonymous #1 5w

It’s a coping mechanism for us to not have to break down sometimes

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Anonymous #5 5w

Everyone knows a really big man that can overpower anyone to take what he wants. And everyone knows an incredibly manipulative woman that can always bend people to their will and get what she wants. “Force” is not always physical, and I think that’s something we don’t always talk about. Sorry to hear about your own bad experiences with others. Hope you’re doing well.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Still makes you look like an asshole, you can keep your weird kinks to yourself no one asked

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Anonymous OP 5w

Loo the truth is they just see you as a masc girl. Like get mad if you want but that’s truly what they see. They don’t try it with males.

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Yeah no fuck you twin

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Anonymous #8 5w

Some of those experiences were before I came out so yeah, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that female rapists are more common than people think. I also have cis male friends who’ve had similar experiences.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m doing much better thank you ❤️

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Anonymous #8 5w

Trauma very often develops into “kinks” ESPECIALLY if it happens during childhood development. That doesn’t make anyone an asshole. YOU’RE the asshole for saying that to a victim

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i hope you don’t have kids

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Anonymous #15 5w

honestly (as a woman) ive met a lot of women who have this idea that men are always in the mood and if they arent it HAS to be for a reason. whether its tired or stressed or smthn and if there isnt something “then they arent attracted to her” its so weird and makes men seem less human, please confront and say smthn like no, im not in the mood, thats not okay, i dont like that.

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Anonymous #17 5w

No seriously! It’s a really harmful stereotype about men making it seem like they always want sex and would never turn you down if you’re hot… when ever single person has a limit to their libido and will experience shifts in sex drive as hormones and situations change

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It’s not a flex, you didn’t change her mind about being with someone who is a child, she was actively attracted to children and interacted with you because of that. There is a reason it’s statutory rape even if you were enthusiastic about it at the time.

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Anonymous #9 5w

That is a really sad way of looking at the world. I promise you 99% of men wouldn’t even consider sexually assaulting someone. Villainizing an entire gender is taking the blame away from the people who actually are causing harm. Hate rapists not men.

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Anonymous #18 5w

Statistically that’s definitely inaccurate, it’s way more than 1% of men committing crimes like this

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Anonymous #18 5w

Uhmmmmmm https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html

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Anonymous #18 5w

But yeah this comment is just hating men and not helpful either

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you a victim

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Anonymous #19 5w

Feel bad for me i guess

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Anonymous #18 5w

Oh I know I’m a guy 😂 it’s just funny

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Anonymous #5 5w

victims aren’t immune from criticism.

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Anonymous mother_russia 5w

yes!! literally

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