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so he didnt break up w me but he doesnt see the idea and i think he is reallu pulling back in terms of our relationship
11 upvotes, 9 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "so he didnt break up w me but he doesnt see the idea and i think he is reallu pulling back in terms of our relationship"
am i about to get dumped, i asked if we could say goodnight more consistently
8 upvotes, 9 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "am i about to get dumped, i asked if we could say goodnight more consistently"
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Anonymous 6w

maybe this applies to you maybe this doesnt but i had to learn to not feel like a burden for bringing up things that matter to me in relationships. Your wants are valid and not bringing them up can cause resentment

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Anonymous 6w

It shouldn’t be a big deal to send the good morning and good night. it’s not hard to do. But it is a big deal in the sense that its important to you, so it should’ve be important to him. it shouldn’t be such a big thing for him to take 5 second out of his morning and night to give something that is normal in most relationships. You really aren’t asking for a lot of

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Anonymous 6w

good luck girl

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Anonymous 5w

yeah i’ve experienced the same problem before. i really value intentionality and feel very strongly that good morning/goodnight texts take minimal effort (legitimately 5 seconds out of your entire day) and that it matters. if you can’t do the little things well, you can’t do the big things well. and if you don’t want to be intentional with that, then you don’t desire the level of intentionality that i need and appreciate

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Anonymous 6w

girl break up w that man

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Anonymous 4w

saying goodnight and good morning is unreasonable??? what???😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I also think when you end with the “it’s fine” I get the frustration 100% at that point but it’s dismissive of your feelings and him opening it up to be a further discussion. Take advantage of that it’ll be worth it in the long run you know. If he’s the right person then these disagreements are worth pushing and figuring out what works

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Anonymous 6w

Oh no im saying they should be communicating these things and shouldnt feel bad about doing so

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

its just not important to him ig idk

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