It comes from a place of privilege. This is a college app with mostly college aged kids making normal college level money, aka minimum wage. If you’re “independently wealthy” at 22 it’s bc your parents are wealthy and set you up for easy success. Many people do not have that and have to work a HELL of a lot harder for a lot less money. I care about someone’s character and determination, not the number in their bank account.

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i think that’s valid as long as ur a high earner or independently wealthy or on your way to it

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Nah, that’s valid.

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Not rude. I didn't work so hard to squander it on supporting an able bodied, able minded partner. Get to work unless you have a good reason not to lol. I want a wife, not a daughter

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Totally valid! Me too man! If my future wife is bringing in the same or more than me, THATS GREAT! OUR household will thrive!

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But if a woman said the same thing about a man there would be significantly less outrage.

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