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Okay so ig an update on this. I talked to him about it, and most of you were right. He shutdown when i talk abt my gender identity bc he's unsure on what that means for him. He loves me though and doesn't want to break up ⬇️
as a queer woman in a relationship with a straight man, i feel like he doesn't respect my queerness. mainly bc he likes kinda refuses to acknowledge it.
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Anonymous 10w

but he doesn't want to label himself as not straight since he doesn't think he would date anyone else who isn't cisgender aside from me. He also apologized about the pride parade thing and admitted that was selfish of him. He agreed to make it up to me and to just be with him while he figures things out :)

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Anonymous 10w

WAIT AWWW THIS IS WAY BETTER THAN I EXPECTING

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Anonymous 10w

Keep us posted!

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Anonymous 10w

Idk if this means that I was right or wrong but regardless congrats and I hope yall are all good

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Anonymous 10w

I’m a queer woman and had men who wanted to date me not see me as such. The best way I’ve described it to someone is: You can date two different type of people. One might be an introvert and another may be an extrovert. Dating one person doesn’t take way the eventual attraction you had with the other person you dated. This all to say, I hope he does come to an understanding. Sexuality is complicated and fluid, but don’t let him undermine yours.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You had me worried in the comments. Like damn your relationship was NOT looking good. But I’m glad he is facing his insecurity about what dating you means for his identity and apologizing for how he treated you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I wish yall the best OP, and I wish him well figuring things out

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