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any advice?
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Girl Talk 3w
trying to navigate dating as an autistic girl is so hard. guys dont show interest so ppl tell me to approach, i do and they tell me guys dont like that. i try to be friends and they ignore me. i try to flirt, get rejected. try dating apps, crickets.
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Anonymous 3w

Make a first move. Show them you’re interested without coming on too strong. Just make your interest in them known, from there either they’ll pursue it or they won’t. Try and be patient, you’re not gonna just be good at it without any experience, so don’t pressure yourself to be.

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Anonymous 3w

Girlie lemme ask you a question in a room of say 100 people how many of them do you think you could be friends with?

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Anonymous 3w

Try to only date men you already know pretty well. this can be either from church, mutual friends, clubs, etc but i will promise you sticking to men you are familiar with is the way to do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i’ve done that and i’ve been rejected every time

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Anonymous replying to -> purp_diamond 3w

idk depends on the people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Keep trying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Just gimme your best guess

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Anonymous replying to -> purp_diamond 3w

like maybe 30 would turn out to be friend material

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

And out of those 30 people how many do you think you'd date?

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Anonymous replying to -> purp_diamond 3w

where are you going with this

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

i don’t know very many guys personally but the ones i do know are in relationships and/or won’t introduce me to their friends😭 maybe i’ll just give up for now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Are you socially active? If not you will have to become so. Don't worry about being awkward

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

you have to go to where men are to find them.

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

yes, but the majority of my friends are girls.

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

where are the guys?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

that is expected

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Like i said, at church, in school clubs, in classes, etc

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