Anonymous #1 12w

Maybe you’d see their hints if you didn’t ignore them

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Anonymous #2 12w

How am I supposed to know something I’m informing like what if I’m ignoring it by accident bc it’s not clear enough

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Anonymous #2 12w

Like that’s a double edged sword

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Anonymous #1 12w

The chances of rejection and/or public embarassment are way higher than success. Why would guys gamble their self respect like this lmfao

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Anonymous freestyle 12w

For a chance at happiness…? Like duh? Are you implying that women always need to make the first move bc god forbid a man gamble his self respect? Like do you hear yourself

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Anonymous freestyle 12w

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Stay stagnant ig whatever keeps you comfortable

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Anonymous #1 12w

“God forbid a man gamble his self respect” WHAAAAAT yeah you’re insane

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Anonymous freestyle 12w

That’s legit what you said

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Anonymous freestyle 12w

Also rejection is just redirection, it doesn’t mean you’ve lost your self respect. Idk who taught you that but it’s a sad way to live

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Anonymous #1 12w

Women don’t always need to make the first move, but in the modern day, the art of the handkerchief drop is dead and buried. You shouldn’t expect men to put themselves on the line for you if you don’t take any measures whatsoever to make it easier/“safer” for them

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Anonymous #2 12w

Like, why should I bet on you when you are behaving the exact same way the other 400 women who would berate me for asking for their number are?

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Anonymous #2 12w

(Obviously this is hyperbole, but point stands)

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Anonymous #2 12w

I’m just not sure you’re making any sense

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Anonymous #1 12w

Look, it’s beddy-bye time, and if you can’t see my point, I don’t think you’re going to. Good luck, you’ll need it

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Anonymous #1 12w

I do agree that rejection can be redirection. But imagine the scenario of constantly getting rejected to the point there feels like no redirection. A lot of men stopped caring or wanting to approach women out of the fear of embarrassment

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Anonymous amethyst_bacon 12w

Constantly being rejected can lead to lower self esteem/confidence/self respect whatever you wanna call it. So a lot of men choose the peace of mind of not pursuing something when they know more often than not there won’t be anything to arise from it

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Anonymous #5 12w

I can rock wit this

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