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Welp I tried to bring up how I feel and he made it about himself and how he “feels like a monster” so I think im about to be single!!!
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Do you think sex can be a genuine way to show affection? When does it cross the line of just being meaningless and being used for my body?
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Anonymous 5w

i’m so sorry girl, i hate when guys play the victim when you’re trying to talk about something

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Anonymous 5w

He feels like a monster for what?

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Anonymous 5w

Or maybe you’re just not listening to him either??? If he is explaining how bad he feels how is that making it about himself. YOU might be a bit self absorbed from what I’ve seen you say. Maybe you should work on MUTUAL understanding

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

literally this, the overly dramatic "oh so you think I'm horrible?" as soon as you try to bring up an issue, designed to shut down the conversation immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Apparently he already knew how I felt and just didnt bother to change until I brought it up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

You’ve only “seen” me say 2-3 things across both posts.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

oh no that is so much worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Please help me figure out how I can create a mutual understanding with this when this is his reaction after 2-3 sentences

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

You can look at the screenshots i posted as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah that’s why I said based on what I’ve seen dumbass. I know I don’t have the full story oml

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah he’s right he’s just being emo leave his ass so he grows a spine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

The dumbass here is clearly you and im not about to waste my time explaining shit to you. You’re obviously an incrl anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m a girl in a happy relationship with someone who doesn’t use me and communicates actually, nice try 🥱

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

girl these messages are messy. if someone is saying you deserve better, listen to them. you absolutely deserve someone who is on the same level as you and he seems to be the wrong person for you :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

also it being over text is crazy, did you have a verbal conversation or text him?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Didnt get a chance to have a verbal convo because it was late at night and he worked the next day. I dont live with him i live with my grandparents so I can help out with my grandmother and babysitting my younger siblings. Id only be able to bring it up next Saturday or Sunday or during his work break

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yea that’s a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I know. It’s probably better to just break up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

this "poor me" shit is so manipulative and annoying, it's literally just to get you to say "oh no forget it I'm sorry"

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