Anonymous #1 1d

This community is filled with double standards and hurt people that’s what I’ve come to the conclusion of

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Anonymous #1 1d

Same! It’s insane to me that they don’t believe a father is important at all. I understand that some people don’t have fathers, but that was never the point being made. Like how does wanting paternity leave make me racist? Wild

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Anonymous #2 1d

RACIST????

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Anonymous OP 1d

read through the thread it's the most insane reaching i have ever seen lol

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Anonymous #1 1d

Bruh someone said this is a right wing way of thinking I’m dead

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Anonymous OP 1d

Exactly! That was wild

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Anonymous OP 1d

guys you do not understand how vindicated I feel bc I went to bed at 3 AM at literally like -8 on every single one of my posts in there with no hope for the future lmao

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Anonymous #2 1d

i have no factual evidence to back this up but i have a suspicion that men who want to take parental leave also probably want to be an active participant in their kids lives even when they are older. like i didn’t “have” a dad growing up because he was always working and i wonder if that would’ve been different if he got to take time off to actually be apart of my life

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Anonymous #4 1d

Did your dad provide for you in anyway since he was always working

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Anonymous OP 1d

financially yes, but we had no relationship outside. i sincerely blame capitalism for forcing to him to decide between being able to provide for me or having an actual relationship with me. also when i mean always working, i mean there were times i didn’t see my dad for months and when he was home it was only for a few days at a time

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Anonymous #4 1d

^also my first comment may be misleading in the context of my second one, but my father’s job did not have paternity leave

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

Thats a bold assumption. Can you back it up with evidence?

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Anonymous #6 1d

ofc its an assumption lmfao? how would there be evidence for a sidechat poll 💀

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

So why make an assumption if you don't know?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

Why do you use sidechat and not yikyak 💀

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Anonymous #6 1d

why not? lmao who cares? if you don’t like my guess as to the results of the poll then you’re free to ignore it

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

my assumption is based off the fact that most women would love for a man to be an involved dad and still get paid. the only reason that makes sense why they wouldn’t like that is if they just didn’t like that he was a dad in general.

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Anonymous #7 1d

exactly

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Anonymous #8 1d

why do u have so little of a life that u care to comment on what app i use 😂

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

It’s for the child too. I don’t even want kids and I can understand how helpful it would be. Let mom heal, dad can take care of the kid

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