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Ask Women 16w
This is really sad to read as a man 😔
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Ask Women 16w
i wish women would extend men LESS empathy and kindness because that has never gotten us anywhere. centuries of women’s kindness has been thrown back in our faces through abuse, rape, and treated as less than because we weren’t born with a dick.
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Anonymous 16w

lol this person has been probably been dealing with the wrong influences and figures in her life I try to empathize with people like this

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Anonymous 16w

….

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Anonymous 16w

Notice how I didn’t say why

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Anonymous 16w

These people are so insane.

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Anonymous 16w

that’s frankly a completely ignorant belief then

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Anonymous 16w

the guys responding online exist in real life you know. and the reason they say that shit online is because they feel comfortable because of the anonymity. guess what happens when guys like that feel a similar sense of comfort when they’re in a relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 16w

“I would like to believe”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

Assuming guys like that manage to get in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

Ofc I agree with yall completely. Maybe my “wishes” are just wishful thinking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

you’d be surprised at how good they are at acting normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

I obviously disagree with it. I haven’t seen it in my line of work so I’m a bit ignorant I guess

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Anonymous 16w

I would like to believe that no one has treated us like that in person. But that’s just not the reality of it. I’ve spoken about my experiences a lot and I know many other people have shared their experiences as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 16w

I guess that’s the catch. In my line of work if you see that kind of thing it gets shot down immediately and ridiculed. I never see it so I guess that’s why I’m “ignorant”?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Even outside of your line of work you’ve absolutely seen it before. In schools, camps, when you leave the house- your job isn’t the only place this could happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 16w

I’m in the military so my job is literally all I see lol. I understand you though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Oh it’s fucking awful in the military. Military men are one of the most likely groups to domestically abuse their partners. Women in the military are super likely to get SA by commanding officers.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

My dad was in military lol, promise it’s exists there I’ve heard of it

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 16w

Idk about commanding officers but yes I agree. Usually involves superiors in general. Most common case of discrimination of woman is between other women though. Not discrediting those SA or DV cases of course

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