No, there isn't anything inherently sexual about my shape. It's just a body. But we know that women's bodies are highly sexualised. Whether that's wrong or right is its own conversation, but I can accept that as a substitute teacher I shouldn't wear shorts because no matter what they're gonna show off my ass. Women with no ass can wear shorts because there's nothing to show off. I don't complain because a win is a win and at the end of the day it's literally just about the kids
Fabric definitely matters as well. People with no curves can "get away with" clingy or tight fabrics where I cannot. And that's fine because clingy fabrics aren't professional anyhow. If your clothes are well tailored and cover you, keep it pushin. Acknowledge your shape but don't let it cause you like extreme anxiety every morning.
“No there isn’t anything inherently sexual about my shape” you dont have to agree with those people at all. They are trying to speak lies into truth. There is something inherently sexual about shape in fact that’s how men determine mates. And a big part of our lives revolve around love or thinking about it. Don’t be afraid to take a stand