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I guess I can ask here too! I’m open to any feedback/suggestions!
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Idk if I’ll ever be ready to date :(( how do I become ready? How do I know I am ready?
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Anonymous 2d

I really respect your take that I saw in the comments, the way you take accountability and address the problem by avoiding the situation that could be harmful. I don’t have answers but I want you to know that you have my respect. You seem like a good person with a good heart. ❤️

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Anonymous 2d

for me, it was realizing that i didn’t feel any guilt for having a crush on someone after being single for a while. thinking about dating won’t give you anxiety (although first date jitters will probably happen still). just make sure that you know what you want and have taken care of yourself before you decide that you want to meet someone. you don’t want to drag someone into your life if it’s lowkey a mess

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Aw thank you! The thing i was referencing only lasted like a few days (and no sex or kissing so hopefully i didnt damage too bad) but i felt horrible running away and knowing i couldnt be there for her when she did nothing wrong. I appreciate ur comment and i try my best!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Hmm I see. I guess I just don’t know like when my life is “good enough”? Like on the outside I have a great life but like yk mental health and stuff that is gonna be like lifelong managing 🥲. I def know what I want (maybe too much I wrote down like 33 things I wish to have in a future partner LOL) I guess it’s the guilt? I’ve never been in a true relationship before I just know the last time I asked someone out (which is kinda rare to find someone I’m interested in romantically) I felt

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Like so much panic and crumbling for like the day while I was waiting for a response and it felt like such a mistake lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Thank you for ur response btw :)

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