Anonymous hellraiser 6w

All of the above 😭💀

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Anonymous OP 6w

Don’t think of women as just potential partners or some other species or something. Women are your family, coworkers, classmates, just people.

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Anonymous #2 6w

Lolll. “Some other species” 💀. I should clarify, it‘s specifically women I find attractive

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Anonymous OP 6w

I can‘t explain it. Can‘t talk to them like regular ppl

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Anonymous OP 6w

They’re still just people. A woman you personally find attractive isn’t more scary than a woman you don’t find attractive. I get being nervous in general but you don’t need to be scared of them any more than you would be another woman

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Anonymous #2 6w

I think I‘m afraid of the idea of a woman I find attractive not being attracted to me…

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Anonymous OP 6w

Thus I‘m scared of those women

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Anonymous OP 6w

It’s abt rejection at its root. These women make me feel like I‘m already rejected by them. Like I‘m not their equal

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Anonymous OP 6w

Do they do that or do you do that to yourself internally? Lots of people are so insecure about themselves in their roots that they make up situations of people judging them in their head that never even happened or take each glance as “oh they’re making fun of me in their head for sure” or something

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Anonymous OP 6w

And if you take some rejection that deeply I think it’s a deeper issue of personal self perception

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Anonymous #2 6w

Like I don’t think I’m some 10/10 that every person I like would also be attracted to whatsoever but most people aren’t and that’s fine

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Anonymous #2 6w

Yeah…That‘s probably a healthier way of seeing things…And no, they don‘t actually reject me. It‘s internal

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Anonymous OP 6w

No fr back when I was younger I’d be a stuttering flabbergasted mess when a guy I liked was attempting to make conversation with me lol

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