Anonymous #2 1w

Neither support fascism right now?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yeah I’m never supporting my girl dating a nazi and it’s also about way more than that. This post is intentionally reductive. I’m not gonna put myself in harms way by hanging w a nazi, and if you decided to date and make excuses for one that tells me all I need to know about how much you care about me and my safety.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Except y’all do. Placating a partner and masking harmful beliefs to try and get closer to others is not okay.

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Anonymous #2 1w

He changed for HER. That alone should be commended

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Anonymous OP 1w

Masking fascism and not actually understanding that it’s harmful is not commendable. Making actual change and righting the wrongs would be, if any effort were actually made. Your boyfriend is shit and so is your defence of him.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I just believe people can change for the better and I think it’s corrosive to harbor resentment.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Why’s that

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Anonymous #3 1w

Even if she turns out to be wrong doesn’t she deserve to be wrong?

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Anonymous OP 1w

She can be wrong but we have every right to criticize her. As someone with many poc and queer friends who have been deeply impacted by MAGA I have absolutely no responsibility to respect or stay quiet if one of my friends chooses to date someone Maga

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Anonymous #3 1w

Ex MAGA, he said he left…..

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Anonymous OP 1w

Changing for the better requires actual change and working on being and doing better. It’s not just “hey, I’m masking my fascism for a relationship. You have to forgive me for actively contributing to harm against everyone.”

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Anonymous OP 1w

Still isn’t owed forgiveness, especially when actions haven’t done jack shit to begin rectifying the damages done.

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Anonymous OP 1w

That’s great! But what is he actually doing to make up for the damage he has done. Changing politics doesn’t fix everything. I don’t have to instantly forgive. Not while my friends are living with the very real consequences of his voting choices and all he’s doing is complaining online

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Anonymous #2 1w

So every Trump voter, regardless of their reason for doing it or their stance on him currently, is responsible for Trumps actions forever?

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Anonymous OP 1w

When they don’t start working against it and actually understanding the harm they helped cause against everyone in this country, yeah. Saying “I’m sorry” doesn’t get people’s rights secured. Complaining about not being forgiven instead of actually working to make change doesn’t cut it.

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Anonymous OP 1w

They are not responsible forever. But I’m only willing to forgive if they actually take actions to fight back against the damage.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yes you are responsible for your actions and their consequences. Welcome to real life. You voted for a Nazi, we are actively seeing and facing the harm of that. That doesn’t go away just cause you changed your mind. Do you understand that the voting booth isn’t for fun now?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Also just the sheer audacity to be complaining so much about.. people not wanting to associate with your history of harmful beliefs?? People are dead because of your vote, people haven’t heard from their sons and daughter and mothers and fathers, trans kids and queer kids have been harmed irreparably because of your actions, and you’re sitting here mad at an individuals decision to not forget that?

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’ve got zero, zilch, nada empathy for this bullshit. Educate yourself and work towards reversing the harm you caused and until then understand it’s up to people if they want to associate with an ex Nazi. (Also not understanding that is proof you’re not where you’re pretending to be)

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Anonymous #1 1w

Aaaaaall of this!!! 🤏🏼🤏🏼

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