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Ask Women 15w
Ok so all I’m hearing is your boyfriend is a piece of shit and doesn’t care about you or women. This is one of the reddest flags I’ve ever seen. He deserves to be dumped and probably should take a SA prevention course.
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Ask Women 15w
So I was SAd last week by a man and my boyfriend feels like I cheated. Is it still cheating cuz I couldn’t get that man off of me because I am small and he was very strong and tall and so I couldn’t do anything
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Anonymous 15w

As a man, it genuinely blows my mind that he could react like that. If that were me I’d be omw to his house with some friends and a baseball bat, not accusing my girl of cheating wtaf. This seriously pissed me the fuck off, that poor girl’s “boyfriend” is a pathetic excuse of a man and we vehemently reject him as one

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Anonymous 15w

One of my friends ex bfs acted exactly like that and she started SH because of him making her feel so guilty. Another one of my friends ex bfs acted like he was excited she got SAd because it made him feel like he could lock her away from the world and he was the only one that could “ protect” her. Got some real scary sickos out here

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Anonymous 15w

my ex reacted this way he said it wasn’t rape because i said ok fine after saying no over and over and over again and giving up and he told me i wasn’t allowed to have any guy friends anymore or he would leave me so i let him leave me good riddance. some men are absolutely disgusting creatures i really hope OP leaves that ugly excuse of a man

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Anonymous 15w

The original post makes me want to stab TWO people

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Anonymous 15w

Honestly nothing makes my blood boil more than people who commit SA and or ra*e except those that do those things to children, why people defend this is beyond me other than them being just as inhuman. Male btw, that person’s bf (hopefully ex bf) is absolutely vile.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

EXACTLY and I think a lot of men share that take. He probably has rapey tendencies himself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Ehh, maybe I surround myself with more decent guys but any of my friends would share my view on it bc they understand that SA is absolutely never the victim’s fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

But yes I agree, OP’s bf definitely excuses way more than he should and if I were a woman I’d be incredibly wary of him and his friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Exactly. This is a take that u can’t change my mind on and I will drop u if you try to question it. I’m glad u have amazing guy friends. Uplift them and care for each other. This world needs good men to replace the bullshit I see all over the place.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I ALWAYS try to call out behavior like that when I see it. I promise men in general are better than we look rn, unfortunately it’s just really difficult with the current state of politics because the few sexists and racists have been emboldened by the Trump administration. But I promise, the vast majority of us really DO care about and respect women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Two men that deserve to have their dicks removed and jail time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

My ex did the same thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

disgusting i’m sorry you had to go through that congratulations on getting away from them i’m proud of you 😊❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

I hope girls read this and learn to see these signs in their BFs, hopefully avoiding these situations. These type of men are hell and self centered fucks. They have no right being within 10 feet of a woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

i agree this is why i share my story. they deserve to get locked in a room with hungry angry crocodiles and only one small tree with no branches to try to get away

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

That’s so disgusting. How do people not realize that having to do that is a survival tactic? Saying “okay” or “yes” is NOT consent. I’m so sorry you had your go through that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

hey so something similar to the second happened to me! i was SAed and got in a relationship shortly after and it got super controlling and come to find out he was intentionally cutting me off from friends and family! def some scary people out there

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

also to add this only happened after he found out about the SA and after he knowingly caused multiple flashbacks and panic attacks!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

Im so sorry this happened to you that’s horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

THIS OMG YES!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

LIKE I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND HOW THAT DOESNT COME TO MIND. If you try to resist they could kill you or harm you further. That doesn’t mean it’s consent AND PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN THIS. Thank god people like you have common sense though fr 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Mine was more so convincing me that it was okay to do it even if I didn’t want to. It damaged my mental so bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

my personal favorite from my story is that when i reported it the officer asked why i didn’t fight back and made me feel even more guilty than i already was like shawty bro was bigger than me….i still to this day am afraid that i might see him somewhere and he will retaliate so imagine how bad it was in the moment 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

Im sorry an OFFICER SAID THAT??? I’d be reporting his badge number because he doesn’t deserve it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

i had a bf like this he’s the reason i finally started therapy :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

it was a she 🫣🫣

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

She doesn’t deserve her badge either. Probably shouldn’t have assumed it was a he but honestly thought a woman would be more sympathetic

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

Yep name and badge number and then file a fat police report. They’ll pull the body cams and that ain’t gonna look good on the officer. Cuz bro u treat a girl like that, there’s a chance she commits so uphold the law my guy. Plus if she fights back he could claim battery so L advice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

the male was more sympathetic than she was! (i had a male officer first then had a female detective)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

THIS!! This reeks of abuse of power

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

That’s actually crazy. Im so glad he was understanding at least but god what happened to women supporting women??

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