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Ask Women 17w
I’m surprised this is so downvoted? I also wish that getting asked/sent lewd shit wasn’t as big of a thing as it is. Kinda has ruined dating culture, especially online dating fr
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Ask Women 17w
I wish nudes weren’t so widely excepted in dating society these days— even as an ex-camgirl. What’s romantic about “I am feeling down, can you show me your tits?” Or random dick pics from guys you’re just starting to talk to 😒
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Anonymous 17w

Yeah I don’t think you deserve downvotes even if I do enjoy like pic culture and that kind of thing fatigue from it is perfectly okay.

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Anonymous 17w

It's not common behavior

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Anonymous 17w

It’s not widely accepted it’s widely sent. It’s the ppl that send them that want to normalize it and made it normalized. We aren’t accepting it

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Anonymous 17w

Commenting same thing here as I did there: if you are finding that sending nudes or asking for nudes is normalized/common/acceptable in your life then you are spending too much time online and in anonymous spaces. The FB example you gave is the exact reason why it’s not normalized to do this to someone you know, but is normalized in anonymous spaces.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Well it’s not my original post but I was scrolling and was just kinda surprised. I’m a lot of other posts that deserve that kinda hate more lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

It’d be less widespread if there were better ways to keep them from sending it again. When I was in my hometown I sent it to a guys family on FB before and gotten them in trouble but that can’t always be done either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

It’s not accepted though we’re not condoning it. We can’t just control them sending it to others we can control them not sending it to us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

I never said it was accepted. I just said I wish it wasn’t as big of a thing as it is and I can understand part of the sentiment of the OG post. And that I wish there were better ways to keep them from doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

That is true but the post is saying it’s accepted and it’s not. A lot of ppl get backlash for sending nudes to ppl bc of how gross the sentiment is. That’s just a hookup thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

I never said that though. I just said I can understand where the OG is coming from in that it’s exhausting. I will have on my dating profile that I’m looking for long term and will still receive unsolicited photos. I have never participated in hookup culture

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

What? I never said you in particular? I’m saying that’s the culture it would stimulate from. Not everyone does that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Then your reply makes no sense. You’re saying it is a hookup thing but I have never participated in hookup culture and still get frequent unsolicited pictures

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Bc no one is directly referring to you when they comment it’s a general statement

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

It made sense bc I never said YOU. Maybe it was a misunderstanding of being targeted on your end. I’m saying that it stems from hookups and just sending nudes back and forth. But unless it is mutually agreed upon it can be tiresome but it is definitely not accepted unsolicited wise

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Not accepted but there isn’t really anyway to combat it to wear the issue isn’t so widely happening. That is my point. It is a widespread behavior issue. Just look at handful of the posts on women specific groups. And it just feels neverending when you can’t do anything but wait for it to happen again, block, wait. Bc it always happens again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

That’s all we can do but we’re still not accepting it that’s the thing. But yeah not every guy would it’s all trial and error

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

As I have said, I’m not saying it’s acceptable to use. Just that there needs to be better safeguards and prevention or something to make it a less widespread issue

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