Anonymous #3 3w

women in male fields

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Anonymous #3 3w

i try to give yall a chance but you make it so hard

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Anonymous #1 3w

there was a trending tiktok audio inciting women to run men over with their cars simply for being “just a man”

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Anonymous #2 3w

they answered it from the question of anti feminist women which isn’t what I was referring to, it was my bad but it doesn’t really answer my real question

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Anonymous #4 3w

I agree but how can I drown the sexism out if every time I try I am bombarded hatred for speaking against hatred. It seems like this sexism is drowning out rational thinking atp or at least online

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Anonymous #1 3w

if you post on this app “I hate men” it’ll get tons of upvotes. If you post “I hate women” it’ll get downvoted to hell. Both are basically the same thing.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I can assure you that, without even realizing it, you know that rationality is a rare occurrence online. People are emboldened by the anonymity. Take a step back and talk to the women you know in real life. Talk to the women they know. If you find that the extremism exists in your circle of real people that look you in the eyes, that is a much better place to start.

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Anonymous OP 3w

For the car thing, I’d second what #4 said. Do women in your life, whom you have interacted with, agree when you ask them if people should run men over with their cars just for being men? TikTok brain rot nonsense is troubling, but it’s the lowest common denominator and is available in every ideological flavor.

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Anonymous OP 3w

“I hate men” and “I hate women” - both of those are bad outlooks, but they are not the same thing. Women who say “I hate men” may be reacting to serious trauma or may be immature - but broadly, that sentiment represents an awareness that interacting with men has a higher risk of rape and death. Men who say “I hate women” may have had a bad experience - but broadly speaking, that sentiment represents an awareness that women may have upsetting opinions, or won’t have love or sex with them.

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Anonymous #1 3w

They are the exact same thing. How can you not award the man the same “trauma” for saying it about women if it’s that situational. It’s the same thing.

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Anonymous OP 3w

This is like the tea app thing. Where women needed a safe space to tell other women that they had been abused or cheated on and to be wearing dangerous men. Men got mad and made their own app where they only posted pics of women to degrade and sexualize them. You argue women having sentiment about men is the same as amen having sentiment about women when it really sings. Because stats show men are more violent. Women become verbally abrasive after being literally abused.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Men can indeed have trauma, and sometimes it’s sexual or family violence by a woman. However, I stand by my generalization (you seem to have missed the “speaking broadly” part) about the *most common* motives for why women say “I hate men” vs men saying “I hate women”

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Anonymous OP 3w

Somewhat related example… I used to work on a hotline for domestic violence and sexual assault, taking calls from anyone who called in (it was open to any gender). The overwhelming majority of callers were women, and there were also a handful of male callers who called us due to experiencing DV/SA. Strangely, though, I received as many calls from men who were using the crisis line as a free sex chat hotline (for incest fantasies) as I did from men who called on the basis of experiencing DV/SA.

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Anonymous #1 3w

you’re acting like only women can be assaulted omg

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Anonymous #1 3w

You’re delusional sexism is always wrong goodbye

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Anonymous #6 3w

“Always” is a strong word lmao I’ve never been exploited by a dude you just have to not be a stupid bitch and you’ll be fine

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Anonymous #6 3w

also being sexist back solves what exactly besides making them mad

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