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Ask Women 1d
Physical attraction is my no. 1 priority but personality is a close second and a shitty personality can ruin good looks. Unfortunately a nice personality can’t make me like you romantically if I don’t find you attractive 💔
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Do you guys agree that “being shallow” is practically biologically engrained in us? Having standards about physical attraction is to make sure our offspring has the best ability to number 1, survive, and number 2, be able to reproduce.
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Anonymous 21h

Honestly couldn’t tell you which matters more to me. I’ve seen multiple people become hot as soon as they open their mouths and I’ve seen several people become actually nauseating because of their words/affect. It’s the reason I don’t use dating sites for dating. I’ve only ever been successful at finding someone casual on them & that I can just find exclusively based on looks and kinks.

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Anonymous 1d

really physical attraction takes priority over personality ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

physical attraction is usually what gets people a foot in the door, personality gets you the rest of the way in.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

it’s not that looks are more important than personality, it’s that they come first. you’ll know if you’re attracted to someone before you know what they’re like as a person. our eyes see before our ears hear

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i can understand that, i guess. that to me just means using physical attractiveness as an initial filter, not necessarily prioritizing looks over personality

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i think that’s at least similar to OPs sentiment

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