Yeahhh, it makes all the difference that she didn't have a choice in being with the current guy, and ppl aren't focusing on that enough. She's not a bad person for this
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Anonymous21h
I dont 🤷♂️ leave your fiance if you don’t have feelings for him and pursue the other guy- starting off a marriage like this is awful and making excuses for why you cant leave is just kicking the can down the road imo
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Anonymous#121h
From what she said it sounds like she can’t just leave
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Anonymous#121h
She’s explained that she could become homeless if she leaves
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AnonymousOP21h
“My parents would disown me” like yeah that definitely sucks and its not gonna be easy to leave- but you can totally work on your relationship w them, and committing ‘forever’ to someone who doesn’t love you and you don’t love doesn’t sound like a solution either idk
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Anonymous#121h
We obviously don’t know all the details but she said she’d be homeless and lose everyone if she broke up with her fiance. Being disowned is a big deal and this sucks for her
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Anonymous#119h
There are cultures in which you can literally be completely shunned from your entire community if you go against the wishes of your family. There’s a chance she might not be able to work on her relationship with them ever if she’s disowned :(