Confessions on Yik Yak | i AGREE! i feel like *many* kinks/ fetishes/ bdsm are caused by trauma & porn addictions but when i say this ppl just call me vanilla/boring/ a virgin instead of acknowledging that their behavior might be unhealthy

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Confessions 19h

i AGREE! i feel like *many* kinks/ fetishes/ bdsm are caused by trauma & porn addictions but when i say this ppl just call me vanilla/boring/ a virgin instead of acknowledging that their behavior might be unhealthy

dare i say that if your kinks or fetishes emerged from trauma, you should be getting therapy for it instead of sexualizing it? idk it’s very uncomfortable as the partner to be asked to cater to fetishes that stem from abuse…

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Anonymous 17h

thank you! like i hate when people are like “dont kink shame” bro i can kink shame all i want when you think its okay to behave and speak like a child while engaging in sexual acts..

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Anonymous 19h

same, ESPECIALLY age regression. it almost always comes from some sort of past abuse which is terrible and so shitty but def shouldn’t be sexualized

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Anonymous 18h

kinks are not always caused by trauma or porn, and they arent all unhealthy coping mechanisms. they can be coping mechanisms, like exercise can be, but that does not mean they are unhealthy

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Anonymous

#2 18h

OP didn’t say they always were…

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Anonymous

#3 17h

okay see this is my problem, just because youre not okay with participating, doesnt mean its wrong. if its consenting adults, then its actually none of your business. if you dont like it, just dont participate

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Anonymous

#2 15h

lol idgaf that shit is weird

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Anonymous

OP 15h

then stfu. you cant stop me

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Anonymous

#2 15h

na na na boo boo 😝

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Anonymous

OP 15h

hehehe

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Anonymous

#1 15h

im looking sideways at BOTH parties that participate. like what do you mean you get off from seeing someone perform childlike behaviors???💀

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Anonymous

#1 15h

thank you sweetie pie 💋

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