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tbh for guys when we find girls are flirting with multiple dudes it just kinda ruins the illusion and mystery for us… like dang i thought we were having our romcom moments together but turns out i’m just another snap streak 😭
So suddenly it’s a crime for single girls to flirt with more than one guy but when guys do it it’s acceptable
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Anonymous 13w

If you’re single it’s nobody’s business how many ppl you’re flirting with and it doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or girl

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Anonymous 13w

imagine being so entitled that you feel insecure when a SINGLE girl flirts with multiple guys😭like not even dating.

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Anonymous 13w

I don’t think this experience is limited to dudes. Maybe this is just my personal preference, but I like when both of us are going about our day and just fall for each other. I don’t like the idea of being compared to other options or comparing other people. It feels like shopping.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

^

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

i didn’t say it was my business i’m just explaining why guys feel this way🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

if i ever told someone i was not with in any capacity that i didn’t like them flirting with other women i would be called a psycho bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

if you told a guy that after a date or two (assuming he was actually interested in the first place) he would literally cuff on the spot. if you don’t believe me… try it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

21 upvotes netted. it’s not insecurity, it’s about wanting to be wanted.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I’ve tried it, you get called clingy or psycho. And being someone who was definitely clingy af, they’re justified for saying it. Unless it’s a mural love at first sight situation, it is weird to expect that level of commitment from 1 or 2 dates.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

i’m with you

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