tbh for guys when we find girls are flirting with multiple dudes it just kinda ruins the illusion and mystery for us… like dang i thought we were having our romcom moments together but turns out i’m just another snap streak 😭
If you’re single it’s nobody’s business how many ppl you’re flirting with and it doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or girl
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Anonymous13w
imagine being so entitled that you feel insecure when a SINGLE girl flirts with multiple guys😭like not even dating.
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Anonymous13w
I don’t think this experience is limited to dudes. Maybe this is just my personal preference, but I like when both of us are going about our day and just fall for each other. I don’t like the idea of being compared to other options or comparing other people. It feels like shopping.
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Anonymous#113w
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Anonymous#113w
i didn’t say it was my business i’m just explaining why guys feel this way🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
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AnonymousOP13w
if i ever told someone i was not with in any capacity that i didn’t like them flirting with other women i would be called a psycho bitch
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Anonymous#313w
if you told a guy that after a date or two (assuming he was actually interested in the first place) he would literally cuff on the spot. if you don’t believe me… try it
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Anonymous#413w
21 upvotes netted. it’s not insecurity, it’s about wanting to be wanted.
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AnonymousOP13w
I’ve tried it, you get called clingy or psycho. And being someone who was definitely clingy af, they’re justified for saying it. Unless it’s a mural love at first sight situation, it is weird to expect that level of commitment from 1 or 2 dates.