Friend Advice on Yik Yak | It’s officially been 2 weeks and they still haven’t responded. I’m going to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume first that something happened and that they’re not distancing themself, so I’m going to call tomorrow unless they message me today

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Friend Advice 2w

It’s officially been 2 weeks and they still haven’t responded. I’m going to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume first that something happened and that they’re not distancing themself, so I’m going to call tomorrow unless they message me today

Friend Advice 4w

Hhhhhhhhhhhh fuck I finally sent a message to a friend who might be distancing themselves from me asking if that’s what’s happening, I’ve been holding off on this for a good few months now

Anonymous 2w

THEY RESPONDED. They’re at work rn so they can’t talk much, but they’re there and they’re not intentionally ghosting me. Holy fuck I thought I was going to feel absurdly fucking anxious the whole day, very glad that’s not what’s going to happen

Anonymous 2w

And if they don’t pick up tomorrow, I’m going to visit their house in person (they live close enough that this is doable, I just can’t drive so I rarely go to their house and our hangouts have been infrequent). If something’s wrong, I’ll find out that way. If they’re ghosting me, that’s a sure fire way to get closure rather than letting them end our 10 year friendship by fucking ghosting me. I’m ok with them not wanting to be friends with me anymore, friendship is a two way street and I have no-

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OP 2w

-right to force them to stay friends with me if they don’t want to, but I absolutely refuse to let it end with fucking /ghosting/

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OP 2w

Oh also I forgot to mention I sent them a message a few hours ago basically saying “I’m really worried about you and I think you’re ghosting me maybe to end our friendship, please talk to me and if you don’t I’m calling you tomorrow” but like a paragraph long