talked with my therapist about this yesterday and i hate having to choose between living as a cis girl where everyone loves me but i can’t live true to myself or living authentically but i have to live knowing everyone has an internal bias that i’m a boy.
i pass as a cis girl irl and it feels like when ppl find out i’m trans a switch flips in their head and i hate it. like a queer girl friend didn’t know i was trans and not long after she found out we were bantering and she said “at least im a real woman!”