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if on the first date w hinge guy he wanted to have sex & i told him i wasn’t ready (he respected esp since im a virgin) & now he wants to “hangout” a week later without telling me whats plans— does that mean he’ll try again?????¿
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Anonymous 13w

if the hangout is at his apartment then he's 100% just gonna try to fuck again. if u want an fwb then go for it, but if ur looking for something serious then id seriously cancel this and tell him ur looking for something for serious and dont see this going anywhere. going to someones apartment THAT soon into dating is just proof he's not looking for anything other than sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

it's naive to think it's just gonna be a hangout where he won't try anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

How do i like kinda ask what we r doing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Also for context he lives in an area where theres like dinner, whole foods, dessert spots all a 2 min walk from him lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i'd stray the convo completely away from hanging at his place. u could be like "ya! let's go bowling/puttputt/ to see a movie then get a drink" or whatever date u wanna do w him and ignore the hangout vibe. then if he says something weird asf like him just wanting to chill at his place u can let him knw u don't feel comfortable going to his place so soon into getting to knw him

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