
I feel like people are very deliberately not seeing the point. obviously our society has deeply misogynistic roots that are incredibly harmful. that doesn’t make other gender based crime or violence okay. it feels like someone going “man it sucks my dad broke his arm” and someone else is like “well FUCK YOU my dad was horrifically murdered!!” like they can both be bad things even if one is objectively much worse
specifically talked about female rapists that are known for raping men and given a pass for it by other women - in that example it was brought to her sorority leadership and the response from them (and other girls who knew) was “oh yeah, she just does that sometimes”, which is very different from not believing victims but ok