We only ever tell people they “shouldn’t have partied/gotten drunk” when they just so happened to get attacked while doing so.
Do NOT let this fuckass culture trick you into carrying the responsibility OR shame of your rapists’ own crimes.
I got raped at a frat party last year and when I tried to confide in my friends they told me I shouldn't have drank so much... this is your reminder that all a girl wants to hear in this situation is that it's not her fault.