
I remember this was debated a couple months ago and I’m saying the same thing I said then. I am a cancer survivor, I promise cancer is 10x worse than any test you can take, I PROMISE THAT. It’s an extreme privilege to have early screenings as there are about 50 types of cancers with no early detection. And I can again promise that the people affected by those 50 types WISHED there was early detection. Early screening saves lives. It’s insane to me that people refuse to partake in these tests.
I was just having this conversation with my roommate. She’s been putting hers off for years now for no reason other than it’s uncomfortable to have someone down there. Said that the risk of cancer is low anyway and chances are she will be fine. Makes no damn sense to me why you’d risk it anyway over a single checkup.
as someone who's had high risk hpv for 3 yrs i'm here to calm ur nerves. it's not a death sentence or even anything u ever think about as long as ur keeping up with annual checks! no one ive ever been with has had a problem with it, all it takes is just a little more communication with partners in making sure they're informed. but other than that its mostly just a waiting game for ur system to clear it
❤️I know. I appreciate it! I’m in healthcare, so I know like how it all works but it was still one of those things that freaked me out and is still freaking me out just bc when I found out about I had literally just heard of someone’s horror story of them getting hpv and it leading to cervical cancer
Absolutely. The ONLY reason I survived was because it was found incidentally. The type of tumor I had is usually found when it’s too late. I’m so lucky but even still, that sickness did irreversible damage to me. Both physically and psychologically. I’ll never be the same but I have my life. Cancer is so dehumanizing whether you’re sick one or a loved one is.
Maybe you need to be put under i am so sorry for you. If they include a “experimental” test that’s smaller so it causes less pain. Idk like a small tube with a scope+light and then bristle brush for cells. Even the brush hurts most women. My first one was the worse. But after that I guess it did get easier once I knew the feeling.
It really isn’t that bad just more invasive than probably anything you’ve experienced. But if you had sex, honestly no shame that means randos saw you, now a dr who spent years looking at vaginas and now get paid to deal with all sorts of things that you never want to comprehend. The scope is the worse part, I suggest if the don’t take a piss test ask to pee right before you get looked at. And the brush takes less than 10 seconds you will do great !!
Which is completely understandable. I don’t ever want to see the inside of a doctor’s office again. I’ve done more testing the last 2 years than I did my entire cancer treatment. But I refuse to do anything but give myself the best chance of getting my best life because I know so many don’t get the chance.
thats absolutely not all he can do and if it is you should ask him to review the literature or ask him for a recommendation to another in-network gynecologist who can help you. at the very least he should be able to prescribe you lidocaine & an anxiety medication. that sounds horrible im sorry u have to deal with that
it’s really not that bad! i’m a virgin too and i genuinely can’t even remember what it felt like it was so quick. i also thought id feel really uncomfortable bc ive been assaulted but my doctor was so kind and understanding and the nurses were great too. it made me feel a lot better i wasn’t ever alone in the room with anyone :)