Update: so the date got rescheduled to sometime this week and he STILL keeps bringing up the idea of us cuddling even though I’ve expressed multiple times now that I don’t want to and it’s kinda becoming cringy because he said “it’s cuddle season”😬
So I’m supposed to be goin on a 1st date with a guy in 2 weeks and he asked if I’d be down to kiss and cuddle. Knowing how most men are, I’m worried he’s probably gonna try to make it lead to sex, and I’m NOT down with that, especially on a FIRST date💀😭
Yeah… if he keeps this up before we finally meet I’m just gonna call off the date and either ask we just be friends or stop talking to him altogether 💀😭
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Anonymous22h
It seems like he is trying to coerce/convince you. He is not respecting your boundaries. If I was you I would drop him because this will be a bigger problem
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Anonymous1d
Some dudes just like cuddling
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Anonymous#11d
I already said no to it though 💀
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AnonymousOP20h
Fairs
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Anonymous#217h
Yeah. I even had to change our plans from dinner and a movie to just dinner (all in public or course) because he literally told me that he “wouldn’t be able to NOT cuddle me during a movie”. I immediately cringed after that😬😭💀
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AnonymousOP17h
You can do what you want and that’s a good plan but I feel like he isn’t worth it because he doesn’t know that no means no. He prefers his own personal gain over your choice