I don’t know. I think it’s reasonable to have the aoc be kind of its own standard bc teens have had less time to understand/acclimate to their understanding of sex, because you really just CAN’T fully understand it until you go through puberty, even if you understand it on paper. But other things, like violence, injury, and safety, you can learn the first time you scrape your knee. Also part of the reason we need a cautiously-set age of consent is that kids are trained almost from birth to obey
and defer to adults, especially when it comes to decisions that are overwhelming or when in over their heads. It’s a jarring shift when as teenagers we require them to quickly adjust to the new reality that they’ll soon be solely responsible for EVERYTHING. Adults who prey on the underage exploit that adjustment period and we’re right not to tolerate that behavior even if we hold the same teenagers responsible for their actions in all other contexts