
Other commenters have already corrected the misunderstandings about the argument so I won’t comment on that but is it not true that people who choose not to medically transition and people who need to medically transition in order to live a normal life have very different experiences?
you’re correct that’s literally not what the content of that post says at all. it actually explicitly states that people are transgender regardless of their choice to transition but rather transsexual as a term to describe people who do choose to transition could be useful and that people who choose to medically transition should be leading conversation about medical transition and access to medical transition
Oh i 1000 agree its a gross and unnecessary distraction to make, i just think we should just let people identify how they want to identify because everyone’s journey and struggle is unique and different, and to try to gatekeep labels is just shitty. especially when you’re gatekeeping over someone that costs money that people don’t have or the ability to have safe access too
it’s not based on ability it’s based on desire. people who are transgender transition their gender which is a social construct. people who are transsexual (like me) transition our physical primary and/or secondary sexual characteristics. it’s a meaningful distinction to make because it significantly impacts the needs and experiences of both
for example someone who isn’t transsexual will benefit from gender liberation, and efforts to reduce the policing of people’s bodies (not being weird about men having extra fat on their chests or women having body hair) but will be less effected by legislation that impacts people’s access to hormones and sex reassignment surgery
of course these conversations and needs are more nuanced and individual but there is a clear distinction between wanting to and not wanting to transition and both those groups have their own needs that should be met and provided for, but when you ignore one of those groups or lump them together you ignore them
it’s similar to the distinction between cis and trans women. cis women have some different healthcare needs than trans women. they both experience misogyny but some of the ways it affects them and their material conditions may be different. the have some needs that are the same and different hence a distinction is useful