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While ghosting is immature and bad, it’s definitely understandable for someone who prioritizes sexual compatibility with a partner to turn down a potential partner due to a lack of sexual compatibility.
Told someone I may be asexual got ghosted love tinder!
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Anonymous 7w

ok everybody fucking knows this, you could have just said “wow that sucks I’m sorry that happened to you” instead of rubbing in the fact that most ppl think asexuals are unloveable. The idea that YOU need to explain to an asexual on a dating app the fact that most people on there are going to reject them immediately is honestly disrespectful and you bring nothing to this conversation.

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah that’s fine, the issue is the immediate ghosting 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Yep!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

For real why is it whenever ace people express frustrations with dating the allos always gotta be like “well yeah :) people like sex :) what did you expect :)” it’s so condescending

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Holy shit bro I do not think that the majority of people think that ace folks are “unlovable” Wanting to date someone who you have sexual chemistry w doesn’t mean that you think that person is unlovable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

What do you want people to say? This is me genuinely attempting to understand and gain perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

“Wow that sucks I’m sorry that happened to you”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Pretty much this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

So nothing to say to the other comment..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Since you begged I’ll say you also bring nothing to the conversation, you just wanted to start an argument over semantics. Go home

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Ok glad we are in agreement about eachothers purpose in this convo

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