LGBTQIA+ on Yik Yak | this is why “safe sane consensual” is kind of an outdated model in the kink community. a lot of the modern community uses RACK (risk-aware consensual kink). the whole point of some kinks is that they aren’t necessarily safe but you are AWARE of the risk

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LGBTQIA+ 15w

this is why “safe sane consensual” is kind of an outdated model in the kink community. a lot of the modern community uses RACK (risk-aware consensual kink). the whole point of some kinks is that they aren’t necessarily safe but you are AWARE of the risk

LGBTQIA+ 15w

“Safe” is socially constructed and “safe” when it comes to kinks kinda goes out the window for a lot of them. For some the lack of safety is part of the kink.

Anonymous 15w

that and PRICK (personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink)

Anonymous 15w

Thank you! I made one of these posts and was trying to figure the acronym because I didn’t think safe sane consensual was the go to anymore!!! It’s RACK!! Ty :)

Anonymous 15w

Thanks for paraphrasing my post and adding in an acronym

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Anonymous

#1 15w

dude you literally said you still don’t give a fuck and will shame people for their kinks. my post is not the same 👍

Anonymous

OP 15w

For some kinks and only when they approach me with it. When I tell you I was almost raped by my father and you tell me about your rape kink or you tell me i should i have let it happen or you tell me how lucky i am and they wish they were in that situation. I’m going to shame them. What they did is shameful.

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Anonymous

OP 15w

If you approach me and hint at a shit kink and i kindly signal not interested and then you push further im going to shame you because i think you should be ashamed of your behavior

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Anonymous

#1 15w

You’re just describing shitty behavior that reflects on individuals and not the kink itself

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Anonymous 15w

Okay, that’s still individual behavior and not stuff about the kinks lmao

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Anonymous 15w

So that’s not kink shaming? Idk you kinda gave the impression you were generalizing

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Anonymous 15w

Then that’s just not kink shaming lol or at least it shouldn’t be

Anonymous

cheesepussy 15w

I am shaming a person in relation to their kink. I am not shaming the kink itself.

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Anonymous

#1 15w

Do you understand the difference between an individual doing a shitty thing and a community? “I shame fat people because a fat person once held me at gunpoint” is analogous to what you’re saying.

Anonymous

#4 15w

I don’t shame the community I shame the individual sorry you assumed otherwise. Seems like you misunderstood

Anonymous

#4 15w

And it’s not analogous. I shame people who disrespect my boundaries. If they did that through their kink then I will shame that part of them. You don’t need to agree, understand or approve of my behavior tho.

Anonymous

#4 15w

Do you understand the difference between shaming someone and shaming a community? I’ve said repeatedly I shame the individual person and only when they do something that crosses a line. So please actually read my responses and taste second to analysis my statement before you go up in moral outrage.

Anonymous

#1 15w

that’s not kink shaming lol. kink shaming is when you shame the kink, it’s in the name. if you’re shaking “the individual and their actions done through the kink,” that’s not kink shaming. that’s calling out shitty behavior.

Anonymous

#1 15w

hi i'm a normal person who was also raped by my dad and now have a cnc kink. your issue isn't w the kink its with the person

Anonymous

#6 15w

You don’t need to tell me what my “issue” is you’re a random person who knows very little about me. Ik what my issue is and I’ve said repeatedly it’s about the individual and how they engage with said kink. You are just repeating something I have already said.

Anonymous

#5 15w

It can be called as calling out shitty behavior. It can also be said that I am kink shaming as some people feel ashamed by their kinks in response to getting called out.