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Update: now she’s trying to nudge me towards making a move on my best friend… my gay male best friend.
Not my mom still hoping that me and my manipulative ass ex bf get back together when I just came out as a lesbian on Wednesday
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Anonymous 20h

Bro my mom was the same way, she was trying to push me into getting with all of my male friends from high school and my first few years of college, and then she wondered why id never bring them up, she pressured me so bad to “try” guys after I came out, it really damaged our relationship

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Anonymous 16h

Omg your mother and my mother should meet bc she’s exactly the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Fr tho and every time a male ex reacged out or a male friend texts me, it’s always “Just be safe if you sleep with him”, but if it’s a female friend or a female ex, it’s always her acting like it can only be platonic or she acts like they’re sketchy as hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yeahh my mom for a couple of years was heavy on suggesting I go on birth control (which would feel supportive in any other scenario) but it was kind of jarring because when I came out and talked about being attracted to other girls she compared that to drug addiction, like now you wanna be sex positive?? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

And that’s so foul 😭 my mom was like that when I got with my last boyfriend (like, pulled the “you’re not allowed to date him until you go on BC” (which, I wanted to anyway, so it wasn’t a huge deal)) but she was also huge on the idea of me getting married. I’m sure you can guess how she reacted when I first brought up the idea of marrying someone while I was with my first girlfriend lol

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