
Bro my mom was the same way, she was trying to push me into getting with all of my male friends from high school and my first few years of college, and then she wondered why id never bring them up, she pressured me so bad to “try” guys after I came out, it really damaged our relationship
Yeahh my mom for a couple of years was heavy on suggesting I go on birth control (which would feel supportive in any other scenario) but it was kind of jarring because when I came out and talked about being attracted to other girls she compared that to drug addiction, like now you wanna be sex positive?? 😭
And that’s so foul 😭 my mom was like that when I got with my last boyfriend (like, pulled the “you’re not allowed to date him until you go on BC” (which, I wanted to anyway, so it wasn’t a huge deal)) but she was also huge on the idea of me getting married. I’m sure you can guess how she reacted when I first brought up the idea of marrying someone while I was with my first girlfriend lol