I’ve personally always held the opinion that “One of the Good Ones” is just a way to promote complacency in an already marginalized groups.
You are not one of the good ones.
You are one of the remaining ones.
Keep on going, folks.
A lot of cis gay men apparently forget about or aren’t aware of this image. A stark reminder that they’re not “one of the good ones” and how Queer people are always disregarded.