damn i hope that’s your ex-bf

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oh my god??? vile. even if somehow that had been accurate re: his experience, framing it as a pattern based on ASAB + gender is fully a choice on his part… he’s not making a real observation, just 100% copping to his own shitty biases

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OP here, I’m dumbfounded, I haven’t even heard that stereotype about us, that’s just awful though. I’m sorry to say it but I wouldn’t be calling him a boyfriend anymore

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Hey so that’s actually so fucked up, and they better be your ex bf, that’s genuinely such a toxic sentiment and is so hurtful to the NB community 😭😭😭 fr just invalidating your identity because they had a bad experience

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OP please break up with your boyfriend. this is a horrendous thing to say to someone

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I’m so sorry he said that :(

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That’s so awful. I’m so sorry

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Oh my god ew I’m so sorry

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Oh no 😬

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