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Huda defenders are professional victims. Its kinda fascinating to see
As a former crashout queen, I would have been destroyed if the people in my life treated me the way some people are treating Huda. It should be normal to hold people accountable while giving them grace at the same time.
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So you think no one deserves grace if they ever make a mistake? Just seems mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No but she actually was given like a LOT of grace

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Okay and so what, she doesn’t deserve it anymore? Its not like she refused to see how her actions were harmful or pretended like she didn’t do anything that hurt other people. So what should she do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I think people deserve grace if they show that they’ve taken the steps to reflect and learn from her behavior which she clearly hasn’t. Huda is clearly someone who’s been through a lot and she still has so much she needs to work through, but seen how she could watch clips of herself being awful to others and laugh just shows me she’s hasn’t changed at all

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Laughing at past behavior doesn't automatically mean someone hasn't grown sometimes it's a defense mechanism because facing our worst moments head-on can feel unbearable. Growth isn't a neat, instant process, and expecting someone to openly condemn their past self right away isn't realistic. Grace is what allows space for that process to even happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Be for real. No one gave her grace

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

The fact that she even made it to the final 4 is proof that she did receive grace

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

She did say her actions on the show was her being “unapologetically herself” and I believe that. I remember voting for her to stay during the first vote because I really wanted to see her learn and grow from her experience, but was very disappointed how things turned out. I don’t know what her future is going but I really don’t think she’s anywhere close to being ready to actually change

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m sorry but that should have made her uncomfortable to watch. You saw Leah react to the shit she said abt Rob

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

The fact that no one labels her as a mean girl and a bully is evidence of grace, saving her not once but TWICE is grace.

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