i think ur just white, that and/or the echo chamber you speak of is just me actively seeking places that are not draining to me and dull. i think youre just comfortable being around people like that and willing to over look those conversations. im not saying that ur terrible and i dont think cierra is terrible, its just the reality of the situation, when u ignore the things they say and do, you are a bystander in their behavior whether u wanna be or not