Okay so obviously can’t speak for everyone but in my experience as someone with asd and not adhd when I get annoyed with adhd people it’s usually because I am overstimulated. Lots of people I know with adhd tend to talk a lot and very loudly and I get overwhelmed and then annoyed. Do you think that’s a possibility?
Not alone for sure! I’m AuDHD and I’ve notice I struggle a little more in-person because I get overstimulated a lot more easily when I’m not at home even with some of my stims and comforts accessible. Sometimes other people’s stims irritate me, especially if they’re audible, when I’m not doing well. I can’t hide my irritation very well in terms of my facial expressions but I don’t like to share it because I know I feel shitty when I’m called out on something even if it’s in a positive way.