
trans women get so much shit because according to patriarchy, a woman shouldn't be a thing somebody wants to be, men are the standard, the golden child, and being a trans woman means walking away from being a man and going towards being a woman, which is bad, or wrong and bigots see transness as a choice, so the idea of someone CHOOSING not to be a man, and giving up the privilege, undermines the concept of patriarchy as a whole that masculinity and being a man is best.