
Purity culture was literally invented as a form of birth control, so it makes perfect sense why babies would be the ‘punishment’ for sex outside of procreation. I’d argue ut even made sense back then, given the birth control alternative was uh MERCURY, but it’s a toxic mindset, especially now that there’s plenty of ways to prevent pregnancy
You know, having any child can be great joy, it’s also a huge responsibility if you value the life that has been brought forth. It’s hard, and it’s difficult, but like life it comes with surprises, things you’ll remember fondly in old age. I personally don’t have any. Sex doesn’t have to lead to childbirth unless you go completely raw, and typically you choose that when you feel you’re ready. People are cautious because protection and anti-birth isn’t 100% even if you do everything right.