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Any straight woman playing this charade needs to just say with their chest that they find gay sex disgusting and the concept of their partner participating in it emasculating. That’s what you mean. Stop the bullshitting.
Dating preferences are not homophobic. You can be picky on the sexual orientation of your partner because that’s the entire point. What is homophobic is when preferences occur outside of dating.
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Anonymous 19h

They assume everyone who does gay sex is a bottom and therefore emasculating, when that’s not even close to true. If a bi person wants to be in a (potentially sexual) relationship with a straight woman it’s probably fair to assume that they’re not going to be a bottom (verse at most)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Ur kinda perpetuating internalized homophobia and phallocentrism by saying all this lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

How? I was basically just agreeing with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

You’re indirectly validating that it’s okay to consider bottoming as emasculating and therefore have all these assumptions as long as the dude has *actually* bottomed before.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I suppose I should rephrase my first reply, not by “saying all this” but by the way it’s worded. It read very much like I’ve described above, but I appreciate the point you’re trying to add

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

That was not the intention. I don’t think that’s acceptable, I think that that perception is baked into the culture and has been since the Greeks. I’m sorry that it came off like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Also you’re assumptions about who is and isn’t a bottom are.. generalizations lmfao

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